Finding Your Force is a memoir written in the form of a love letter to a daughter. In this intimate conversation we journey into the darkest parts of the author's soul. We walk with her as she digs deep beneath the ruins of her soul where all her secrets are kept. Santos digs deep to stop the running and to turn squarely face tormenting memories and those moments that have transformed her from surviving rape, healing through loss and coming out as a lesbian. This is a journey about life, death and rebirth. The author tells her daughter a story that is brutal and heart wrenching. It is not a love story but definitely a story of love.